Restoring Your Heart’s Foundation Coaching Session
is a faith-based group coaching session designed to help Christian women heal after a toxic relationship. Through guided coaching, self-reflection, and faith-filled tools, you’ll uncover the hidden wounds in your heart, break free from negative cycles, and step into God’s healing and restoration.
Plus, you’ll receive the Restoring Your Heart’s Foundation: Breakup Edition card deck to support your journey. Click below to learn more and take the first step toward healing!
SIS, IT’S TIME TO HEAL FROM YOUR TOXIC RELATIONSHIP.
Currently: Your Broken Heart
Unhealthy Decision Making
Ignored Red Flags
Did not consider God before entering the relationship
Stayed in the relationship knowing it was unhealthy
Faulty belief system in God and who He says you are.
Such as…believing God doesn’t want you happy, didn’t protect you or doesn’t love you
Believing you are worthless, No one would ever love you.
Unregulated Emotions
Experienced/experiencing Fear, Anger, Loneliness and Self-Blame, Pride
= A Unhealthy Heart
After: Your Restored Heart
Healthy belief system in God and who He says you are.
Believing in God, Who He says He is and His promises
Believing what He says about you
Regulated Emotions
Know how to regulate toxic emotions so joy, love, peace and forgiveness can flourish
Healthy Decision Making
Know how to surrender Your Will to walk in God’s will
Practice self-control
= A Healthy Heart
TEND TO YOUR HEART
Experience deep healing and transformative growth inside the "Tend to Your Garden" coaching program for Christian Women.
"My mindset used to be very negative, but now it's more positive. I'm aware of what's causing my issues, and now I can work on it. Also, I know I always have God to turn to."
- Client from New York
“The most helpful thing I have learned is that I have to practice positive thinking and reflect in God's word. It has transformed my life."
- Natasha C.
Tend to Your Heart Garden Framework
Based on Faith, Neuroscience & Positive Psychology
Heart Foundation- (Heartology 101)
Explore its intricate functions and learn to distinguish between a healthy and an unhealthy heart
Emotions
Learn how to uproot unhealthy emotions and cultivate a garden of healthy emotions such as joy, peace, and love.
Mind
Uncover core beliefs about yourself and God. Pluck up harmful thought patterns and transplant a fixed mindset on God,
Will
Unearth the reasons behind actions you wish you hadn't taken and the ones you wish you had.
Meet Tonya,
Your Restored Hearts Coach
As the co-visionary alongside God, Tonya leads The Heart Garden Academy and Dear God’s Daughter, communities crafted to guide women through the aftermath of toxic relationships. With her innovative 'Tend to Your Garden' approach, she empowers Christian women to cultivate a resilient foundation of the heart, unveiling the profound beauty of self-love and self-worth through the lens of God.
Drawing from her journey, she knows firsthand the hurt that comes with healing from a toxic relationship. Yet, through tears and prayers, she found rest and healing in Jesus, whose voice affirmed His boundless love for her.
Driven by her own experiences, Tonya is devoted to supporting women facing similar challenges. Holding a certificate in Applied Positive Psychology and pursuing a Bachelor's in Health Science, she remains dedicated to refining her skills and staying updated on the latest research and practices. Her accomplishments, such as reaching #1 on Amazon Best Seller list in Christian Poetry and receiving the Etobicoke Guardian’s Readers Choice Award, underscore the profound impact of her work.
Through collaborations with influential platforms like Tony Gaskin’s YouTube Channel and Sister to Sister, Tonya amplifies her message of God’s love. Whether through podcasts or festivals, her influence extends far and wide, touching hearts with unwavering faith.
Now, fueled by her divine calling, Tonya embarks on a mission to impart healing. Guided by the love of God, she teaches women to rediscover their inherent worth through His eyes, extending a lifeline to those emerging from the shadows of toxicity.
FAQs
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Life coaching is a collaborative, goal-oriented process that helps individuals identify and achieve personal, professional, or spiritual goals. While the primary focus is on personal growth and creating an actionable plan for the present and future, life coaching can also briefly touch on the past to uncover limiting beliefs, patterns, or behaviors that may be hindering progress. The coach helps the client gain self-awareness, learn from past experiences, and break old habits, with the ultimate goal of moving forward and realizing their full potential.
A life coach works with clients to:
• Clarify values, passions, and priorities
• Set and achieve specific goals
• Build self-awareness and confidence
• Navigate transitions or personal challenges
• Improve relationships, productivity, and overall well-being
• Stay accountable to commitments and progress
In life coaching, the coach typically asks powerful questions, offers insight, and helps the client explore different perspectives while encouraging them to take actionable steps toward their goals. The process is highly individualized and can cover many areas like career development, health and wellness, relationships, personal growth, spirituality, and more.
Life coaching helps people bridge the gap between where they are and where they want to be, focusing on empowering the individual to reach their full potential.
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The roles of life coach, therapist, and counsellor all involve helping individuals grow and improve their lives, but each profession approaches this in different ways. Here’s a breakdown of the key differences:
Life Coach
Focus: Life coaches concentrate on future goals and personal growth. Their primary aim is to help clients clarify their goals, overcome obstacles, and create actionable plans to achieve those goals. The focus is typically on self-improvement, goal-setting, accountability, and forward motion.
Approach: Life coaches use motivational techniques, action plans, and coaching strategies to empower clients to reach their full potential. The relationship is collaborative, with the coach guiding the client to make decisions that align with their personal or professional goals.
Topics: self-worth and identity, emotional healing and processing, forgiveness and letting go, self-love and self-care, rebuilding trust, co-dependency recovery, faith and spiritual growth, mindset.
Qualifications: Life coaches are not required to have formal mental health training or certification, though many undergo specialized life coach training programs.
Focus on Mental Health: Life coaches do not treat mental health disorders or delve deeply into past trauma. Instead, they focus on enhancing a person’s present and future.
Therapist
Focus: Therapists focus on mental health, emotional well-being, and healing from past traumas. Their goal is to help individuals understand and resolve emotional or psychological issues that may be affecting their well-being.
Approach: Therapy can be short-term or long-term and involves exploring a person's past experiences, relationships, and emotions to help them process and heal. Therapists use evidence-based techniques (such as cognitive-behavioral therapy, psychoanalysis, etc.) to help clients work through issues like depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, and more.
Topics: Mental health disorders (anxiety, depression, PTSD, etc.), trauma, emotional issues, relationship conflicts, grief, and self-esteem.
Qualifications: Therapists are licensed mental health professionals who hold advanced degrees (such as a Master's or Doctorate in psychology, counseling, or social work) and are required to undergo clinical training and licensure.
Focus on Mental Health: Therapists are qualified to diagnose and treat mental health conditions. They focus on emotional healing and psychological support.
Counsellor
Focus: Counselling shares similarities with therapy, focusing on helping individuals manage life challenges and providing support for emotional well-being. However, counselling often takes a more present-focused approach, dealing with specific problems (like a relationship issue, grief, or stress) rather than deep psychological issues.
Approach: Counsellors provide a supportive environment where individuals can discuss their problems, get feedback, and learn coping strategies. Counselling is often short-term, focusing on specific life challenges or transitions (e.g., marital counselling, career counselling).
Topics: Stress management, career guidance, marital and family issues, grief, substance abuse, and coping with change.
Qualifications: Like therapists, counsellors typically have a Master's degree in counseling or a related field and are licensed professionals, though they may not deal with severe mental health issues to the same extent as therapists.
Focus on Mental Health: While counsellors help clients cope with emotional difficulties, their role may be more focused on practical problem-solving rather than diagnosing and treating mental health disorders.
Summary of Key Differences:
Life Coaches: Focus on personal development and future goals, not mental health issues. They empower clients to take action and create change in their lives.
Therapists: Focus on emotional healing, past traumas, and mental health. They diagnose and treat psychological disorders.
Counsellors: Provide support for specific challenges and life transitions, with a focus on problem-solving and coping strategies for current situations. They may address some mental health concerns but do not provide in-depth psychological treatment.
The right choice depends on the individual’s needs: life coaching for personal growth, therapy for emotional or mental health healing, and counseling for navigating specific life challenges.
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We help Christian women who are seeking healing and restoration after toxic or unhealthy romantic relationships.
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My life coaching program is distinct because it combines faith, positive psychology, and neuroscience, offering a unique and comprehensive approach that no one else provides. Here’s how my program stands out:
Faith-Based Coaching: Unlike many other programs, my coaching is deeply rooted in Christian principles. I guide women to heal emotionally and spiritually by reconnecting with Jesus and embracing their identity as beloved daughters of God.
Personal Experience: I’ve been through the pain of a toxic relationship myself and found healing through faith. This personal journey allows me to coach with genuine empathy, understanding, and spiritual insight that’s hard to find elsewhere.
The 'Tend to Your Garden' Method: My signature method integrates spiritual growth, emotional healing, and mindset renewal, tailored specifically for Christian women. This holistic approach ensures clients are not only rebuilding emotionally but also deepening their relationship with God.
Spiritual Transformation: I lead women through a transformative spiritual journey, using their faith as the foundation for healing and growth. This goes beyond surface-level strategies, fostering true inner healing by nurturing their relationship with God.
Unique Blend of Faith, Positive Psychology, and Neuroscience: My program incorporates not just faith-based principles but also evidence-based practices from positive psychology and neuroscience. By blending these fields, I help women develop emotional resilience, manage stress, and rewire their thinking patterns for long-term healing and transformation. This combination of spiritual and scientific approaches is something few others offer.
Specialized Focus on Toxic Relationships: My coaching is specifically designed for Christian women recovering from toxic relationships. This niche focus allows me to provide targeted tools and strategies that meet their unique emotional and spiritual needs.
Community and Sisterhood: In addition to individual coaching, my group programs create a supportive community where women can share their experiences and find healing together. This sisterhood is vital for women who feel isolated in their journey.
Faith-Based, Practical Tools: I provide tangible resources like my "Restoring Your Heart’s Foundation" card deck and journal, designed for personal reflection and growth through scripture, prayer, and practical exercises rooted in Christian values.
Emotional and Spiritual Resilience: With certifications in Positive Psychology and HeartMath Resilience, I offer science-backed techniques that focus on emotional regulation, resilience, and overall well-being, combined with spiritual guidance to ensure holistic healing.
By blending faith, positive psychology, and neuroscience, my program offers a unique, transformative experience that helps women heal from toxic relationships and rebuild their hearts and minds like no other.
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No, we also offer individual coaching. If you're interested, please feel free to send us an message here: theheartgardenacademy.com/contact
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You can apply to join the group coaching program by clicking here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0e1bt0ZkYPOrpBeewvdGvU2C1KYqq0SmwcWMOv1Ixc6Fj4w/viewform